Just before Christmas last year, we received news that Laughing Boy's best friend had been diagnosed with myeloma and kidney failure. My first thought was "I need to make him a quilt!" Laughing boy was dubious about it but as I reminded him, this is all about me. I chose the colour palette over the holidays, pulling all my stashed precious navy fabrics, you know - those fabrics that you have for years but can't bear the thought of cutting up as they are for stroking only. I decided that this quilt needed some precious. I also wanted to quilt to symbolise something rather than be an abstract design. I see Julian as strong, noble and gentle so the idea of the monarch of the glen quilt was born.
I really wanted to do a Dan Rouse deer but couldn't work out how to draw the stencil so decided to do a mash up of Dan's reverse applique technique and Luke Hayne's deer. At our January guild meeting, I was able to finalise the design, with the help and guidance of the ladies there.
navy 6" blocks and orange 3"blocks |
a bit lost in the gloaming..... |
There was a paper template of the design on the front cover. Result! So I traced it on some Swedish tracing paper then reworked it so it was a little bigger. Then I pinned the orange patchwork to the back of the blue patchwork ......
And sewed round the outline....
I bought some really neat duckbill applique scissors and, following Dan's instructions, cut roughly 1/8" inside the sewn line to reveal.....
I decided to outline the deer three times then radiate lines outwards. Reader, I am ashamed to say it took another three months before the quilting was finished.
Then came the bits that always bring me joy...
squaring up....
I may have cut through the wee man's cricket numbers at this point |
I was ridiculously happy with the mitred corners on this quilt |
And it was finally finished, over 6 months after it was started and after a load of horrible chemotherapy and stem cell treatments had been completed.
Julian passed away a couple of days ago. Cancer fucking sucks.
Oh Moira! What a story. But you know with that quilt he knew what he meant to you, what you thought of him and that's priceless. Sometimes a quilt is just the right thing to say. Bless you, and yup, it sucks big time.
ReplyDeleteIt's a beautiful quilt Moira and although it's a massive cliche, it's the thought and love that went into it that counts.And yes it does suck.
ReplyDeleteFinished is so much better than perfection and he obviously really appreciated it, thanks for sharing the story of this quilt, some do mean more than others, especially to the maker. Hold on to the good memories of him and look after yourself. xx
ReplyDeleteWhat a moving story and fabulous quilt. Having nursed my terminally ill husband through cancer (and I couldn't agree more with your sentiment about that dreadful illness) every day and hour is lived to the minute so in fact I believe J would have appreciated it even more towards the end. Frankly the first part you are just in denial. Hopefully the quilt now gives comfort to his family and they will remember this kind heartfelt gift.
ReplyDeleteOh Moira, i'm so sorry. How are you and hubs holding up? The quilt is amazing and very special
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear about your friend, Moira. It's such a great quilt. I think that's a lesson for all of us - yes, people do appreciate our little handmade items and when we should just get over ourselves and gift them. There is nothing better than to lie under a quilt when you're sick. Glad to see you back here.
ReplyDeleteIt really does - so sorry that you have lost your friend, these thing are just cr@p. I'm glad he liked it, it is a wonderful quilt. Hopefully more confidence in yourself next time xxx
ReplyDeleteIt's a stunning quilt and I'm glad Julian had it to comfort him. Take care xx
ReplyDeleteIt's a good lesson for us all, hun. I'm pleased he got his quilt and a mighty fine one it is too. Sadly cancer is everywhere. This summer has been plagued with it with three special people in my life too. I hope you are all okay and wishing you loads of love. XXXX
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